Getty Images / Stock Image A bride is unsure how to proceed with her mom after some messy interactions in the leadup to her wedding. Taking to Reddit's popular "Am I the A-hole" forum, the 32-year-old woman revealed that she and her husband exchanged vows in "a small wedding" the year prior. In the leadup to the big day, the bride made multiple efforts to include her mom. However, she said that it went so badly that she eventually gave up. Things were tense, and they only got worse.