Ray J, 45, claims he's slept with over 12,000 women

Ray J, 45, claims he's slept with over 12,000 women Ray J also claimed he threw a party to celebrate hitting the five figure milestone. 29 April 2026 Ray J claims he has slept with well over 12,000 women. Ray J claims he's slept with thousands of women The 45-year-old singer has made a staggering confession about his love life, insisting the number of women he's slept with has reached five figures, and he credits the high number with his experiences on tour. He told the Funky Friday podcast: "These are 10,000 different people. It's at, like, 12,500 now, but I wanted to get to 11.