The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives star Jessi Draper is giving her fans a "life update," speaking candidly about her healing journey and experience dating after divorce. "I know that you guys see a lot of headlines and videos and photos about my life, and something that I have learned from being on reality TV is that everyone has an opinion," Jessi, 33, said in a "get ready with me" video shared via Instagram on Saturday, April 25. "But healing after divorce is so interesting because everyone's process is different.