Ciara Miller is still sorting through her feelings after longtime friend Amanda Batula started seeing her ex-boyfriend, and their Summer House costar, West Wilson, earlier this spring. "Ciara has told friends that if they really are in love, she will accept it," a source exclusively tells Us Weekly, noting that if West, 31, and Amanda, 34, have true feelings for each other, Ciara, 30, will take the high road.