A lavish bridal shower at Mar-a-Lago for Donald Trump Jr.'s fiancée, Bettina Anderson, brought together key members of the Trump family - but not first lady Melania Trump, whose absence drew particular attention. The omission stood out amid an otherwise tightly knit gathering as the family moves closer to a high-profile wedding. An extravagant affair at Mar-a-Lago Bettina Anderson's bridal shower was described by attendees as an elaborate indoor-outdoor gathering.