Source: What's The Reality Podcast A The Bachelorette success story is speaking out about disparities in fan support across the franchise and BOSSIP has an exclusive preview clip. In a raw and revealing conversation on Amber "AD" Smith's What's the Reality? podcast airing Wednesday, Charity Lawson and her fiancé Dotun Olubeko are opening up about what they describe as a persistent lack of support for Black relationships within The Bachelor universe.