Former United States Secretary of Homeland Security Kristi Noem's husband, Bryon Noem, allegedly told a dominatrix that he was willing to leave his wife for her. "He really liked a confident woman," Bryon's alleged dominatrix, Shy Sotomayor, told the Daily Mail in an interview published on Friday, April 10. "I don't embrace the airhead, ditzy personality that a lot of bimbos do. I expect to be worshipped, not degraded." In late March, reports emerged that Bryon, 56, participated in online fetish forums while occasionally wearing pink hot pants and fake breasts.