Article continues below advertisementKristi Noem's husband reportedly wanted to be a woman "so bad."In a bombshell report published by Daily Mail, the former Homeland Security secretary's spouse of more than 30 years, Bryon Noem, was exposed for allegedly sending shocking texts to his secret online lover Shy Sotomayor about his desire to transition.The news outlet's exposé included texts and phone calls between Bryon and the s-- worker, whom he supposedly said he'd leave his wife for.