Dwight Howard's estranged wife has been ordered to stay 100 yards away from the ex-NBA star and two of his children after a judge signed off on a protective order on Tuesday, April 7, Us Weekly can exclusively report. Amy Luciani (real name Amber Howard) is prohibited from going near Howard's Georgia mansion and his kids' private school and cannot contact any of them via phone or social media after being accused of stalking and threatening to harm Howard in a petition he filed earlier this week.