Jen Shah reached out "privately" to Mary Cosby to send her condolences after her son Robert Cosby Jr. died. In a clip from her People interview that was posted via Instagram on Thursday, April 2, Shah, 52, said she reached out to her former Real Housewives of Salt Lake City costar, 53, following the tragic news. "I did reach out to Mary. I privately reached out to Mary because I felt like that was the respectful thing to do," Shah told the outlet. " I sent her a card, you know, and just told her how deeply sorry that I was to hear about the passing of Robert Jr.