Brandy is being candid about her current relationship with her brother, Ray J. Source: Kevin Mazur / Getty The singer and actress opened up about where things stand with Ray J in a recent interview, making it clear there's currently some space in their relationship. "There is distance right now," she told Parade. "There are a few things that he's been doing in the public eye that I don't condone, and I just feel like loving him from afar right now is best for me and my peace.