The Valley's Kristen Doute is opening up about sex with Luke Broderick after baby. "I mean, we're trying. It's just hard," Kristen, 43, exclusively shared with Us Weekly while celebrating season 3 of Bravo's hit reality show. "It's not like I don't find him to be the most attractive person in the world, which I do, or that I don't want that for us. But I'm just tired all the time, and I'm in survival mode. I'm just hyperfocused on [our baby] Kaia.