Kendra Duggar told husband Joseph his family were "disappointed" in him in the wake of his arrest. Wonderwall.com can reveal the reality star, 27, also told Joseph, 31, his family still "loves him" during a call between the spouses at Fayetteville, Arkansas' Washington County Jail last Thursday, which was made public on Tuesday. 'I Understand The Disappointment' Joseph said he accepted why his family feels let down in phone call with wife Kendra.