Heather Graham says intimacy coordinators can be' awkward' While Heather Graham thinks there is "very good intention" for intimacy coordinators, they are not for her. 27 March 2026 Heather Graham thinks intimacy coordinators can be "awkward". Actress Heather Graham The actress said it feels strange to have someone watching closely during a sex scene because she has not had that before in projects, such as when the star had nude scenes as Rollergirl, a young porn actress, in the 1997 film Boogie Nights.