Influencer Sydney Berry has a lengthy list of things she didn't want to hear from her husband, Brendan Berry, when they exchanged wedding vows. "I created a 'do not use' phrases list to give to my fiancé," Sydney, 29, said in a viral TikTok video posted earlier this month. "These are phrases I absolutely do not want to hear when I'm standing up at the altar, and if I do hear them, I might say, 'No.'" At the top of Sydney's list was the phrase, "We've had a lot of ups and downs." "When I see couples say this ...