Instagram/Demi Lovato & Wilmer Vald TV Demi Lovato opens up about her teenage relationship with a 30-year-old, calling the 12-year age gap "not OK." Hear her candid reflection on the Keke Palmer p... March 15, 2026 AceShowbiz - Demi Lovato has openly discussed the complexities of her past relationship with ex-partner Wilmer Valderrama, describing their significant age gap as something that "was not OK.