by Jennifer Rollin, MSW, LCSW-CBuzzFeedHuffPost Contributor "You wanna be on top?" Tyra Banks sang at the camera as upbeat music played in the background. Photo by Hyungwon Ryoo / CBS Photo Archive via Getty Images As a teenager, I was excited to hear the theme song come on TV. My mom and I sat eagerly on the leather couch with our snacks as an episode started.At the time, I remember thinking that it was just an entertaining reality show. In fact, it was something that I looked forward to watching every week. I watched many seasons of the show.