How 'hero' Benny Blanco stopped Selena Gomez's tears before their wedding Benny Blanco has recalled being a "hero" who managed to stop Selena Gomez's tears before their wedding 28 February 2026 Selena Gomez was in tears in the days leading up to her wedding after losing her handwritten vows. Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco married in September The Only Murders in the Building actress married producer Benny Blanco last September and while things went smoothly on the big day, there was a hitch beforehand when she misplaced her notes for four or five days.