Clare Crawley chose not to attend The Bachelorette: Before the First Rose alongside several of her Bachelor Nation peers. "I was super sick," Clare, 44, said in a Thursday, February 5, Instagram Story, revealing her reason for skipping the reunion special. "The producers asked me to come, and I thought about it since it would be nice to see all the ladies." Clare, however, had a change of heart after allegedly being told "to rehash things from six years ago." "Hard pass," she stated.