Blake Lively and Taylor Swift's unsealed text messages indicate the moment when Lively's It Ends With Us drama started to impact their friendship. "I have no reason to ask, but I donno [sic], I've been feeling like I should ... is everything OK? I felt like a bad friend lately because I was such a sad sack who only talked about my own s*** for months," Lively, 38, wrote in a text message to Swift, 36, in early December 2024, according to court documents unsealed on Tuesday, January 20.